This is a question I imagine most people ask themselves from time to time.
But now imagine for a moment, you are an extraterrestrial person coming from an advanced holistic civilization. How would that go?
Perhaps it would go like this:
On one fated day, you arrive in your starship in Earth’s orbit.
You look out your window and wonder how in the world are you are going to proceed with your mission to help these humans on Earth. After all, the Prime Directive is a fact, and it states that you cannot engage in a way that proves that extraterrestrials are real.
Humans have to put two and two together and figure that out for themselves. Because that’s how it’s always been done.
As you are pondering this, you hear a sound from your starship computer. You look at the screen to see what happened.
It is an email from the local Galactic Federation Office for New Arrivals, which welcomes you to Earth orbit!
“How nice”, you think to yourself, as you read through the text.
You get to the end and breathe a sigh of relief as you find a list in mail with the title ‘Rules for ET-Earth Human Interaction.’ Perfect!
It reads,
1 – These rules correspond to the all-important Prime Directive. Follow them and you will become a great contribution in helping humans on Earth expand in conciousness in a safe and proven way.
2 – Your starship must not be seen by humans.
3 – YOU must not be seen by humans under any circumstances, unless you are a Lyrian human (because they won’t see the difference). In any case, humans on Earth must not be able to detect with reasonable certainty that you come from off-planet.
4 – In an unprecedented experiment, we have just launched a groundbreaking project named FIRST CONTACT. In this project, permission has been granted for a limited number of people from select Galatic civilizations to engage in text communication with people on the surface via starship computers, by interfacing with the human Internet.
Wow, that would be awesome! you burst out loud, and you start imagining typing on your computer, and people down there getting totally ecstatic. They will finally be able to talk to an actual extraterrestrial person…
The last line reads:
YOU are one of the lucky ones to have been given this permission. But remember, you must not give any proof of who you are. No pictures. No audio. No videos. And absolutely no FaceTiming!
Good luck!
AMAZING!!! You cannot believe it! This is going to be so great!!
Cue Mari’s latest video.
Why Project First Contact Bombed
In her introduction, Mari talks about this very project, First Contact, in which thousands of people on Earth were contacted through social media in the years 2008-2016.
How did it go, you probably wonder. And why haven’t you about this in the news?
Well, it was a massive disappointment and a monumental failure.
One reason to this lies in the selection of extraterrestrials who should do the typing.
The candidates were mostly “young idealistic females” in their teens and early twenties, which were the ones most interested in the job.
And on top of this, someone decided, that the best place to find people to talk was in group chat rooms. Instead of serious and deep conversation, they ended up in casual conversation talking to lonely men, who were more interested in flirting than learning about higher concepts from space.
Young, super nice, extraterrestrial women eager to communicate and holding nothing back. Lonely men. What could go wrong?
The men were not interested in what they had to say. They just wanted someone to date.
When the females ultimately couldn’t live up to the men’s expectations, the young extraterrestrial women were ridiculed and abused.
This is all described in detail in Mari’s video from 2023: “Why was project first contact a failure?“
The conclusion, the Galatic Federation reached on the project, was, that humans were not ready for next-level contact.
‘Now hold on for a moment!’, you probably say, as did I when I heard about this. WHAT?! These people were supposed to represent US ALL, and disclosure was halted based on THIS?
Of course, as it turned out, it was a premature and flawed conclusion.
Mari says, the project was set up wrong in the first place. In her analysis,
“Sending “First Contact” project volunteers into those chat places is comparable to having sent them into a low-level pub or bar to evaluate the intellectual level of humankind and their spiritual awareness. They simply will not be able to find humankind’s finest examples there. The most advanced members of humankind simply don’t waste their time in those places, as they obviously have much better things to do with their time.”
However, since project First Contact was shut down, extraterrestrials were still allowed to have limited communication with people on Earth. A couple of these people happened to also be YouTubers. The ET-human dynamic was different this time around, and it was possible to have much more long-term communication.
But when Mari arrived in Earth orbit in mid-2021, people on her spaceship had talked to two YouTubers for a number of years already, and—although Initially there had hope for a good relationship, as the communication was primarily centered on what the extraterrestrials wanted to share—things had not gone so well after all, and ultimately this communication also ended with a bang.
Mari gives an overall analysis for what went wrong:
“The relationship dynamic always goes like this:
“First, a nice friendship growing phase.
“Then a nice stable communication plateau, which can last a long time, followed by more demands coming from the people on Earth.
“Then frustration starts to develop. Expectations are not met. So they start to demand impossible things onto the non-humans who cannot comply despite their very best people-pleasing qualities.
“And then finally they make a big rant and an attack against the Taygetans, where they are finally discarded, blamed for everything, and even hated upon.
“And we can see this happening over and over again.”
In her analysis, she gives a couple of reasons for what is at the base of this conflict. One is the Clash between cultures. ETs come from a holistic society, where you are always ready to give and serve others vs. cultures on Earth, where you prioritize receiving instead of giving.
Because of the difference in the levels of conciousness, this also gives rise to difference in expectation and empathy leading to an unhealthy balance, in which the human sets forth unrealistic demands on the extraterrestrial person, causing major stress.
She also states personality conflicts as a reason for the failure. What they experienced was, that the YouTubers acted as narcissists. Pair this with extraterrestrials who are innate empaths, and you have toxic and unstainable relationship.
The narcissist-empath relationship is fortunately getting a lot of exposure these days, so it is better understood in the population in general.
But when the people involved are extraterrestrials and humans on Earth, the toxic dynamic is way more pronounced. So it is a big concern.
Mari goes on by saying, that the Earth Matrix seeks to find weaknesses in order to negate influence from the outside (meaning from extraterrestrials).
If the human, who has contact with an extraterrestrial person, at the same time has the habit of desseminating information from the communication with the extraterrestrial to many people on the Internet, they would especially be a target, because of their level of impact on the Matrix. Any weakness would be exploited.
That’s how the Matrix works.
A Side-Note About How the Matrix Is Sustained
The Matrix is a fabric of reality, that is created and upheld by the mass conciousness of those that live there. This is one of Mari’s key teachings, and she repeats it often.
The Matrix must align with the majority of people’s level of conciousness. Otherwise, it becomes unstable and people will reject it. It is like a massive shared dream, that has objects and rules, that the people that have the dream agree on.
The principle of the tendency to eliminating foreign elements is understood in Thermodynamics. When stress is added to an object, the molecules and atoms in it move around and change their vibration in such a way, that the stress is minimized. Similarly, when a volume of gas at high pressure is introduced in a system at a lower pressure, molecules move around, so the overall pressure becomes the same everywhere.
To give one more illustration, “Extraterrestrial material” could also be seen in the same manner as a virus that enters into the human body. White blood cells are sent out to eliminate the intruders, so that status quo can be upheld.
In the case of knowledge of extraterrestrials coming inside the Earth matrix, we would of course say that this is good and beneficial material, because it would gradually upgrade the whole body.
And that is why extraterrestrials always talk about seeding ideas into the Earth Matrix. It is not a drastic, immediate change, but something that occurs carefully, slowly, and not in an imposing way, that is threathening to the Matrix. If the ground rejects the seeds, the ground was not ready, but if it was ready to sustain a seed, containing the right nutrients and soil consistency, the seeds will grow into plants and give fruit.
A Need For Boundaries
Mari explains further, that extraterrestrials are partly to blame for the development of the toxic dynamic that they had to live through. They did not set boundaries. However, they didn’t know it was necessary, nor did they know how to do it, now that they were allowed contact through typing. Extraterrestrials from holistic societies are inherently people-pleasers, and because they all are that way, one person is never taken advantage of by the others.
When they engaged with humans, they would eagerly share personal things, naturally trusting that their secrets would never be exploited. But when things turn sour, this was not the case. They tragically had to awaken to this reality at great personal cost.
The Problem of Overflating Egos
Mari sees one more problem:
“Another thing most Taygetans constantly do wrong, is that they people-pleasing and constantly empower the people they are talking to on Earth way too much, without foreseeing the consequences of doing so.
“This causes the people, they are talking to, to overinflate in ego, making them feel worthy of deserving all the Taygetans’ attention, and that of every other human as well, making them develop a feeling of being special and above the rest of the human population.
“They develop a superiority complex that is derived from the serious people-pleasing effects of the Taygetans who want to elevate and make their friends feel good without understanding the consequences, because they will want more and more of it, until a breaking point is reached.
“This is an egocentric reaction in the Earth humans, which Taygetans have talked to, and which I see as a constant as well.”
On this last part about overinflating egos, I feel to inject a couple of my own observations.
Over the years in my life, I observed a number of people close up having powerful spiritual gifts in the sense of that they were able to do energy healing, see into the spirit world, have visionary experiences, and go as a spirit into the spirit world, and meet and talk with beings there.
At first I was very impressed with this, and I wanted it to experience all this for myself, but as I kept observing these people, almost without fail, they would talk badly about the others. They, themselves were the only ones with authentic, true, special experiences, and the others were obviously deceived and should be avoided.
They would also gain followers, and these would fight against the other groups.
I eventually started to pull away from all this, since I saw that the end result of these experiences was so bad. There was little good fruit, so to speak.,

I see similarities to the people, Mari’s people dealt with.
The YouTubers, she talks about, would regularly publish the information they had gotten in YouTube videos. I would term this special knowledge, a way to describe information that comes from more esoteric sources. Thousands of followers would then see the videos and as a result feel empowered and special for having this superior knowledge that others do not.
I sometimes would go to the forum of one of these YouTubers, and I noticed the same pattern, I had seen before. People would revere the YouTuber; and if you would dare to mention other names of people that desseminate special knowledge in positive light, you were most often silenced. They were competition, and competition was not tolerated. I specifically remember thinking to myself: This is like a high priest-follower dynamic. Isn’t this, what I was trying to get away from?
From what I have seen for myself and from what I gather from Mari’s descriptions, both the Leader receiving the special knowledge from above and the followers become inflated in ego.
What I believe people secretly believe, although they would probably deny this, is:
“I’m better than everybody else, I’m special because of my exclusive access to the spiritual” (or extraterrestrials.)
I see this most pronounced for the leader. They stop taking advice from others, and they stop seeing flaws in themselves. As a result, it is also almost impossible to hinder the tragic trajectory, such a person is on.
Leader Ego-inflation From YouTube Followers
As Mari notes, the ET-human dynamic is especially bad, when YouTubers are involved, as they will have a continuing and constant need to get more and more information for their videos. They have an emotional need to keep getting what feeds their ego: relevancy, feeling special, financial income from views, etc.
Another characteristic of the dynamic between the YouTuber and their followers, is that the followers elevate the YouTuber and make the person into an authority, they depend on. They create an expectation for being led and fed with more special knowledge. So in a way they help create the Leader and encourage the person’s bad habits.
They end up in co-dependency, where the followers feel empowered by special knowledge and by being in the group. On the other had, the YouTuber feels empowered by being the special, chosen one, the person that is so privileged as to be the one that fills that role and leads them all.
The idea of being “chosen” has a very powerful impact on one’s own sense of worth, value, and feeling of purpose.
And as the saying goes, “Pride comes before the Fall”, which results in the end of the contact with the extraterrestrial, and the group identity is shaken. Since the authority-follower co-dependency relationship no longer receives input from the extraterrestrial person (although filtered through the YouTuber), the cohesive energy – which in reality has its roots in pride and has empowered the group – is released in an outburst of negative energy and attacks against the extraterrestrial and even against each other.
In this blow-up, the true nature of the group’s cohesive energy is unmasked. Its ugly face is shown for everyone to see: Pride. The bad kind.
For Her Closest Friends
I get emotional when I reach this point of my commentary. If I could only use one word to describe latest Mari’s video, it would be this: LAMENT. This is Mari’s lament.
In the thumbnail, she writes that this video is only for her friends. In the video she dedicates some of the content to her closest friends. Maybe you, the reader, that came to this website is one of them? I know, I would like to be called such.
Mari shares incredibly heartfelt feelings that builds on her observations and personal experience with ET-human interaction that goes bad. She laments in the limitations of being able to only communicate through typing. Of not being able to transmit audio of her real voice. Of not being able to be seen. Of being accused of being AI.
If you haven’t already, please listen to her for yourself, and imagine her sitting and writing this. Try to connect with this person. This is a real person. Mari is real.
Conclusions and a Silver Lining
To tie all this together, I gather that certain things must be in place, before successful and sustainable communication between extraterrestrials and humans can occur.
- The human must understand, that they are talking to another human of the Lyrian race, merely extraterrestrial and coming from a holistic culture off-planet with advanced ethics, spirituality and technology. They are not talking to a godlike being, and the extraterrestrial person’s knowledge is not perfect – it is in development, and it will sometimes differ from person to person from that civilization.
- The human should not have a role of dessiminating information, that the extraterrestrial person offers, to a large public following. At least not on regular basis. No YouTubers.
- The human should have a stable and relatively content life on Earth. They should have demonstrated maturity in interpersonal relationships and ethics. Ideally, they should also be free from potentially toxic people in their surroundings. This will protect them from incoming attacks fom the Matrix.
- The extraterrestrial person should have knowledge and understanding of cultures on Earth and be able to maintain personal barriers and see warning signs. Warning signs would include that the human starts delving into romantic stuff (which according to Mari has lead to disaster every time for both parties, due to not being able to meet and escalate communication beyond typing text). Also discussing a desire to leave Earth is a warning sign.
You could probably add a lot more to this list, but I think this covers a good deal of ground.
As a conclusion to this post, I believe that despite all the tragedy that has occurred in the wake of attempted ET-human communication over the last couple of decades (goes even further back until the 50’s – see more in Mari’s videos, if you haven’t already), there is a silver lining:
Mari keeps on posting!
Despite the disappointment and pain from observing the failures in ET-human commucation, she evidently still has hope for successful and sustainable communication sometime in the future.
Mari says, she made this video for her “closest friends, those that care about them and her on a closer level, and who wish to understand everything that is happening and are not only here for the information.“
If you have been watching her video until the end, with the interest of understanding her better and the situation, she and her people is in, that is probably a good indication that you are in that good company.
This company of friends have learned and understood or seek to learn and understand all this! Mari understands it, and her closest friends are those that are still here, not just for the information, but they are here for a relationship with her and her people, based on the best ethical principles.
Communication lines are down for the time being, off course, but I have a real hope, that two-way communication (or with a group) will again take place some time in the future.
I imagine that this time around it would be on a carefully thought-out and limited basis at first, using all the wisdom, that has been gained through painful experience. As a stepping stone for next levels of contact.
I believe that the dynamic will be:
ET -> Many humans
Not:
ET <-> One person -> Many humans.
This first is what Mari’s channel is about, and the second is what has been before. And I believe that it be the stepping stone to this:
ET <-> Many humans
Ultimately, this will be a two-way relationship that involves much more than typing.
And by the way, Mari already described two years ago how this two-way communication can already occur now, and she gave an invitation for it. See this video.
Seeing Eye To Eye
This was a long post, but it concerns things that I’m very interested in, and I could speak a lot more on the subject.
But I’ll end with a quote from Mari in her video. Her words describe the basis for the type of relationship, that she wants humans to have with her and her people. If both parties understand this, it can complete change the outcome from what has occurred previously:
“Notice I don’t use the word contactees, as that somehow makes the non-earth human be in a superior position. And that is the exact opposite of what I want to convey to you. That we are the same species, the same people, and we are simply more of you” (my emphasis).



